If your job is to review ebooks in the men’s dating and seduction niche it can quickly become a grueling task as you rack up more titles that tell you pretty much the same things. Because of this it is nice to come across a book that fires on all cylinders in addition to helping you discover exactly what is necessary to make women become interested in you in a serious way. Dating and relationships are not easy for any guy, and reading
dating books can seem at times almost as difficult as getting out there and mixing it up with women, but this book is worth the effort. By the way, I am only going to give a brief summary of my findings here. If you want the full story you will need to get across to my How to Become an Alpha Male page.
I enjoyed John Alexander’s book How To Become An Alpha Male a great deal more than I thought I would. Partly this was because of first impressions. The cover of his book is a little on the cheesy side with its silhouettes of seductively gyrating women. But do not let this deter you. What you will find within the book is exactly the kind of content that you are looking for when it comes to dating guides for men – a well-written and sensible philosophy of how to approach girls, behave around them, and bring them into your life for lots of healthy sex. Make no mistake, sex IS the primary goal behind all of the preparation and self-reinvention that John promotes.
If his philosophy could be reduced to the bare essentials, it would probably run something like the following: (1) you need to discover how to become the type of guy that does NOT depend on the approval of women in order to feel great about yourself, but you must learn to do this without becoming arrogant – and once you do feel good about yourself you will also easily manage to convince others to feel that way about themselves. (2) in order to make a woman feel attracted to you and desire to have sex with you, you must make sure that she never feels that she would be perceived by you or anyone else as being a slut (John’s exact words, repeated many times throughout the book).
If you can do these two things, and the devil is in the details, then you are well on your way to becoming the Alpha Male that takes the woman home night after night.
I have more to tell you about John Alexander and his book How to Become an Alpha Male, but to hear the rest of it, as well as find out what else I have to say about the other dating books for men that I have reviewed, you will need to get yourself across to my site where I survey the field on my relationship books page.
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